The mouth is the most versatile part of the body: we use it for eating, drinking, talking, kissing… and even oral sex! And who can resist something so pleasurable if it’s done right?
Oral sex is a rather intimate and socially stigmatised practice that, with poor sex education, can be intimidating. However, when practised safely and consciously, it can be very pleasurable. In addition, oral sex improves self-confidence, as well as communication and intimacy with your partner. Not to mention that it delays ageing and improves the health of those who engage in it.
Enthusiasm
Obviously if you are going to perform oral sex you have to be enthusiastic about it, otherwise don’t do it. You have to be in the mood. You have to have the desire to satisfy the other person and not do it to get something in return unless it is what is agreed upon in the relationship.
Communicate
Although many people find it difficult to communicate in the middle of oral sex, in the end it is the best formula. If you can’t get the words out, don’t worry, you can show them by guiding them with your hand, moans or facial expressions.
Stimulate erogenous zones
Don’t go straight to the point. It’s usually better if you start massaging her erogenous zones, such as her inner thighs, neck, chest, buttocks and abdomen to increase arousal and give her a guaranteed orgasm.
Eye contact
Eye contact alone can stimulate arousal by increasing connection and complicity. Also, watching her facial expressions and breathing patterns will guide you as to whether you are doing it right or if you can do better.
Anal play
Anal sex is a sexual practice that is still quite stigmatised. Here we talk about playing with the anus and stimulating it while pleasuring their sexual organ. You can use sex toys or directly with your fingers and a good lubricant.
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