American supermodel Bella Hadid has once again made the pages of the major news portals because of her latest statements on the new Victoria’s Secret podcast called “VS Voices”, hosted by British photographer Amanda de Cadenet.
In it, the top model has spoken openly about her love life and how it would have been anything but pretty, and in her own words about her continued desire to please those who had a big impact on her mental health and those who abused her: “I constantly went back to men — and also, women — that had abused me, and that’s where the people-pleasing came in.”
Surprising, isn’t it? That’s how surprised we were to hear these statements from the top. In addition, Bella also commented on how for a time she was obsessed with the opinions of others allowing them to determine her self-esteem and even end up affecting her work and personal life: “I started to not have boundaries, not only sexually, physically, emotionally, but then it went into my workspace… I began to be a people-pleaser with my job and it was everyone else’s opinion of me that mattered except for my own because I essentially was putting my worth into the hands of everyone else and that was the detriment of it.”
Finally, the youngest Hadid also spoke (albeit more briefly) about how growing up she felt she had no voice and was never listened to, but also about the internal turmoil of her cross-romances to which she said: “My nervous system would crash. It was like fight or flight. Either I would become silent and cry and just go inward or I would lash out and leave.”
From here We would like to thank Bella Hadid for sharing her experiences with us and for demonstrating once again that behind a supermodel and an it-girl in capital letters hides a real, humble and fragile person.
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